Picrel is the average bottom in an average gay couple, field experience or indirect interaction with gay couples will make you notice how appearance wise bottoms tend to be highly masculine, will lift, sometimes be balding and have lots of body hair

Bottoms being reppers, or bottoming being a ritual of "boyremoval" is a cope created by trannies to pretend like taking dick in the ass is some sort of way to feminize yourself, when masculine men have been taking dick in the ass since time immemorial and stayed masculine

Bottoming will not validate your femininity, if you need an action to validate your identity, then I'm afraid that bottoming will turn you more masculine instead and is an acknowledgement of your masculinity

This is how a bottom looks in normal society, if you bottom, you acknowledge you're a hairy man

There's nothing more masculine in aesthetics than taking dick up the butt