Keep in mind there very genuinely are people here who don't play the game, or don't even on the game, that just come here to schizo power trip, and thats before you include all the fringe players who play but never participate with xivg players in game.

When you skip past all that and get to actual in game interactions, around 50% of the people are very chill and pretty socially capable outside of either being gooners or hardcore gamers.
Of the remaining 50% you'll meet in game it's like...
>15% silent wallflowers that could be plotting to murder you or are just omegashy, but you'll never know which, or both.
>15% bpdemons, that will seem cool, but also will randomly go insane temporarily when they have a bad day or meds run out.
>5% genuinely, actually autistic. With all the awkwardness and weirdness coupled with genuineness that it includes.
>4% serious extreme mental illness to the point that it's extremely obvious even in short meeting, and renders them completely alone and non functional.
>1% actual, genuine manipulative sociopaths. But they will go after the easily manipulated people in the 4% above so you're fine.

In short, if you have any social skills it's obvious quickly who to avoid in game, or who to be cautious around. Except for the bpds, they're 'oops I stuck my dick in crazy' sneaky.