>>40202016

I don't get self harm. I've never seen it be just physical, it's always been some grandios emotional reasoning like 'I deserve this for being xyz'. Some unhinged, frankly narcissistic shit. Like how can you think you matter so much that you get off from hurting yourself emotionally. As a segway into sex I can get emotional abuse, it's mental conditioning for physical pleasure. Anything else is so alien. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.