Deep down you know that playing your video games is just a way to fill some emptiness:
>car games - to get the feeling of working on the sports car that you cannot afford and the garage of luxury vehicles that you will never buy
>strategy games - to feel in control
>management sims - to feel like you are building the business empire that you will never have
>building sims - to feel living in the nice city that you will never move to and owning the nice estates that you never will be able to own
>RPGs - to feel like you are having an adventurous life and are growing as a person

Maybe you should also dedicate time to pursue these in real life?