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7/16/2025, 1:56:02 AM
Trying to put into perspective just how fucked things are from a social and relationship perspective.
>social media provides easy access to an overdose of validation
>inflation of self-worth, naturally leading to women feeling more prized
>men's demand for women unwavering, so they keep stimulating the inflation (simps are born)
>now there's less reason for women to seek men irl - regression of the cold-approach/in-person meeting
>enter dating apps
>irl approach now 'weird', so men use dating apps
>women already had an overdose of validation - now it's at a level unheard of
>women are by nature uncertain people (cannot handle choices) - apps turn men into a 24/7 open buffet (no need to choose, just load your plate with whatever you want whenever)
>the damage is so bad that one has to accept toxic traits and personality clashes just to sustain a relationship
I don't think you understand the fallout this thing will have on the sociopolitical foundation of our cultures, and to ignore it as an exaggeration of a chud (Chudxaggeration, if you will) is to drive with your eyes closed. this generation of a group of people coddled to think they're so special and another group that feels isolated and socially distant will eventually take the leadership reigns, and what good could ever come from that?
>social media provides easy access to an overdose of validation
>inflation of self-worth, naturally leading to women feeling more prized
>men's demand for women unwavering, so they keep stimulating the inflation (simps are born)
>now there's less reason for women to seek men irl - regression of the cold-approach/in-person meeting
>enter dating apps
>irl approach now 'weird', so men use dating apps
>women already had an overdose of validation - now it's at a level unheard of
>women are by nature uncertain people (cannot handle choices) - apps turn men into a 24/7 open buffet (no need to choose, just load your plate with whatever you want whenever)
>the damage is so bad that one has to accept toxic traits and personality clashes just to sustain a relationship
I don't think you understand the fallout this thing will have on the sociopolitical foundation of our cultures, and to ignore it as an exaggeration of a chud (Chudxaggeration, if you will) is to drive with your eyes closed. this generation of a group of people coddled to think they're so special and another group that feels isolated and socially distant will eventually take the leadership reigns, and what good could ever come from that?
7/15/2025, 5:09:07 AM
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>As a man, it is your role and responsibility to make the first move and push things forward.
while this is true, reality doesn't allow for it. socialization skills and expectations (how to socialize) are irrecoverably fucked because of internet/social media.
forget about zoomers, there are millennials in their late 20's/early 30's that still haven't warmed up to the idea of putting themselves out there. they are paralyzed with fear and are incapable of coping with a failure.
im 31 and have no issue approaching/socializing, but it is absolutely filled with pitfalls. last girl i asked out was married...if she was even wearing a ring, i didn't notice it at the time, but there's initial embarrassment there that you have to be able to process (fugg what if she thinks im sleeze that hits on married woman), and then further being able to handle (and not sperging out) the next time you might potentially see that person.
and this isn't even getting into how a lot of w*men are fearful of being approach because they themselves are socially retarded.
the fact is, 'making the first move' is fast becoming an 'old world' way of doing things - the times are changing fast to one where people prefer to be contacted by a fucking device before in person. it sucks but it's the way it is (but i will never use an app).
>As a man, it is your role and responsibility to make the first move and push things forward.
while this is true, reality doesn't allow for it. socialization skills and expectations (how to socialize) are irrecoverably fucked because of internet/social media.
forget about zoomers, there are millennials in their late 20's/early 30's that still haven't warmed up to the idea of putting themselves out there. they are paralyzed with fear and are incapable of coping with a failure.
im 31 and have no issue approaching/socializing, but it is absolutely filled with pitfalls. last girl i asked out was married...if she was even wearing a ring, i didn't notice it at the time, but there's initial embarrassment there that you have to be able to process (fugg what if she thinks im sleeze that hits on married woman), and then further being able to handle (and not sperging out) the next time you might potentially see that person.
and this isn't even getting into how a lot of w*men are fearful of being approach because they themselves are socially retarded.
the fact is, 'making the first move' is fast becoming an 'old world' way of doing things - the times are changing fast to one where people prefer to be contacted by a fucking device before in person. it sucks but it's the way it is (but i will never use an app).
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