its less smokey here today :)

also, the best advice i can give you is the type of person you're looking for is going tobe so rare it's unlikely you'll find them in real life. a ftm who isnt cocksexual and won't leave you for a cis male is like a minority within a minority. on top of that, you want this person to be someone you mesh well with, that you're attracted to.
LDRs are honestly painful but if you like the person enough it's worth it without a question. you could try taimi or whatever but i don't think it's likely the type of person you're looking for would be there. again, i wish you the best of luck anon