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I do like both Shondo and Callie, they mean a lot to me and I'm happy to see them both grow and to see their streams and their communities lead them to better places in life. Shondo doesn't want this kind of fanaticism anymore. I used to be "devoted" to her: Always spamming chat with random bullshit so she would know I'm paying attention, being afraid to type in anyone else's chat while she was live so I wouldn't be caught "cheating" on her, hunting down her alt accounts so I could see all of her menhera venting and gore art that would just make me feel worse, all in the pursuit of being the "best husband". But it's not healthy, she knows it's not healthy, and she's been trying to correct her mistakes and breed these behaviors out of her community for a long time now. And we owe it to her to try and change for the better, to make this a sustainable, healthy community instead of neurotically stalking Shondo and being at each other's throats all the time fighting for a prize that doesn't exist.

Shondo acted as menhera as she did because she didn't believe her life would last this long. She always thought that she would burn bright and die early, her entire life being her bedroom and her stream. But her relationships with her friends and her family and her audience changed that, they changed her. She wants to live now. She wants to grow up and see the world, see her friends, build a stable and happy household for her family, and she wants us all to do the same. If you're a real husband, you'd honor her wishes and build a life that doesn't revolve solely around her