PROTIP for my fellow buttsluts: if you use chastity for assplay but still can't acquire a hands-free gasm or can't help but focus on your dick for whatever reason, buy some arousal balm. Rub it all over your ballsack when your dick is still locked up, and then go to town on your ass. I did this the other night and it was one of the biggest breakthroughs I've ever had. Feels amazing, too. Being forced to only focus on the cooling numbness coming from your ballsack and the pounding sensation up the ass makes everything so much easier and better.