Theres literally nothing I can think of thats more cringe than some genetic dead end socially outcasted low status loser trying to self improve to fit into society. Its like theyre so far off the mark I dont even know where to begin with them.

The average person, and even the above average, just exist and the things that you consider normal just happen to them. No high schooler ever had to self improve to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they gravitated towards each other. Theres no thought out into any of this, these things just happened through the natural flow of life, no self improvement necessary. Thats what happens when youre not a genetic dead end mentally ill freak, you dont ever find yourself one night lying in bed alone wondering why you dont have a single friend or youve never kissed a girl at 23 years old. You dont devise a plan to stop touching your cock for six months in order to look a girl in the eye. You just exist, you go with the societal flow, and you end up with a wife, a nice job, a house, and some kids. If you missed out on this flow, its probably because youre complete genetic shit lol.