I asked a flamer out when we were freshman in high school but he rejected me because I dressed emo. Now he's a 5'10 straight trans woman with a 6ft jock bf and I'm a 5'5 agp sissy cross-dresser who has sex with random fat men off grindr.
(At the time he was only slightly taller than me, I don't know how he got so much taller by senior year)