>>40306856
I’ve talked to a few trans girls who are curious about topping, even make fun of others for being into it. So don’t listen to brainworms from others on this board who are obsessed with telling others who is and who isn’t actually a trans woman.

However some will try it and sorta enjoy it until they get in their own head and feel dysphoric during or after. Idk much about that as a cis person, but I can see feeling anxious and upset about something people vilify trans women for. Maybe using a strap on instead might help ease some of the dysphoria during sex since that’s typically what lesbians use. Not that it’s bad you haven’t done so, ofc.

I think you should talk to dev partners annoy your concerns of being boxed into the role of topping exclusively. So you don’t feel like it’s something you gotta do to keep a partner. I know tons, probably most, women are submissive and/or bottoms, so topping is in high demand. But you don’t want to be with someone you feel anxious about having sex with and lacking open communication.