TSF/TGTF is a patrician's fetish, I explained in an older thread why I love it so much, the idea of how the transformation itself would feel, the shift in identity, the suspense of the changes being made itself, the unfamiliarity of a complete formchange, to say nothing of the submission factor of not being able to control your own body, let alone gender, has always been hella arousing to me.
The only thing I feel that holds the fetish back from being more accepted in places like this site is the fact that it attracts the tranny crowd too much, which I'm convinced that it entirely consists of people like me who have AGP but were unable to separate their fetishes from reality. Like sure, people with vore fetishes get off to the idea of being eaten, but do they actually want to be digested and killed? Probably not.
If you're new to the fetish, the only thing I can really tell you is that you are, infact, not a woman. As long as you can tell yourself that at the end of the day, and dodge the bullet of the trans rabbit hole, you'll be fine.