It could always be worse OP.
>have friend whose going through divorce
>they've been married 10 years
>so she is legally enabled to 50% of what's his
>the divorce lawyer she hired thoroughly went through everything he owns
>not only is she keeping the house
>but he also had to transfer half his stock to her
>she will also be able to pull some of his social security
I only know this because this guy's been venting to me about it all