I’ve noticed that many young men today are fixated on female chastity, believing that only women without a past are worthy of marriage. Some try to present this view as traditional, but to me, it is harmful and self-defeating. No civilisation survives without families, yet this mindset drives men away from relationships, leaving them bitter and alone. Instead of fostering trust and responsibility, it creates suspicion and fear, delaying the very things it claims to uphold: stable homes and children. The reality is that most people have a past, and that is not a flaw but a simple fact of life. What matters is not whether someone is untouched but whether they are ready to build something lasting. Women are not my opponents; they are essential partners in sustaining any culture worth preserving.

If I truly care about the future of my civilisation, I cannot waste time chasing perfection. Instead, I must encourage partnership, commitment, and forgiveness. The future is not secured by people who sit back and judge others but by those who are willing to work, build, and create together. Lasting families and strong communities are formed by people who choose to love despite imperfections. The future does not belong to the pure. It belongs to the builders

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Why Do So Many Men Get Worked Up Over a Woman’s Past?

I’ve noticed a lot of fellas get real riled up when the subject of a woman’s “body count” or past relationships comes up. You’ll hear stuff like, “A real man doesn’t want a woman who’s been around,” or “She can’t love you right if she’s been with too many guys.”

Now I get it. Nobody wants to feel like they’re just another name on a long list. But I think a lot of the anger really comes from insecurity or maybe just plain old jealousy. Truth is, in today’s world, women have a whole lot more options than men do, especially with dating apps and social media. A woman can get more attention in a day than most guys get in a year.

That kind of thing makes some men bitter. So instead of just being honest about how it feels, they hide it behind talk about morality or old-fashioned values. But let’s not kid ourselves it’s not always about what's right or wrong. Sometimes it’s just about not getting picked.

Now I’m not saying folks shouldn’t have standards, but there’s a difference between wanting someone with similar values and just being mad because the dating game feels unfair. Women have always had choices — it’s just more obvious now than it used to be. And I reckon a lot of men aren’t taking that too well.

At the end of the day, everyone’s got a past. What matters is how they carry themselves now and how they treat the person they’re with