What level of freakiness is allowed between a husband and wife in the bedroom? We're both trying to go to Church more together but I've never entirely understood what the consensus is on this issue, if there even is one among denominations.

Oral/anal allowed? Dirty talking? Slapping/choking? Role-playing? My wife is into all these things. I know porn isn't allowed, we don't do that

I am not interested in a non-believers or libtards perspective on this