can we talk about the subject in general or just how rare it is?
personally it doesn't need to be "older woman" and "younger man", I just needed "high status woman" giving "low status" man special treatments, doting on, falling in love with, care for, for seemingly undeserved reasons to other's disapproval, but she knows different and will love him for his inherent humanity. Its not really something I can properly reciprocate in real life but that's why it is a fantasy.