>>81492091
Idk how to describe it. It's like the difference between playing Mega Man 5 and Mega Man Legends 2. Both are great games but they're only very superficially similar. Using a toy is just inherently different from sex, not really better or worse, because sex is more than just moving a toy back and forth. But you can also masturbate to stuff that isn't really possible or desirable IRL. The appeal of sex is being manhandled and pounded and feeling a guy bearing down on you, and cock is used much more roughly than a toy can be even if you tried.