When I was young, I always just assumed that having sex would be the most natural thing in the world. but now that I've been married for two months, I know it is anything but natural. I get that we're supposed to get naked, but how the fuck do I get my penis inside her vagina? Where the fuck even is her vagina? There's a bunch of folds, but which one is her vagina? How do I know when my penis is inside her vagina? I can't really see or feel anything. It's nothing at all like masturbating, or porn.