>>713099764
>It's not abuse if my self-esteem is still intact
Wrong. If I repeatedly punch you in the face without your consent and you claim to "like it" that doesn't suddenly mean the intent wasn't abusive.
>fuck all the other men whose self-esteem is completely destroyed by shit like this
Completely deranged. Women have empathy for other women. That's how they were able to get way better societal treatment because they collectively demanded it. Men also have empathy for women. But the same cannot be said if you reverse the genders. Women are usually extremely callous or even irritated by the simple concept of "men's rights". And what's even worse, many insecure men simply resort to hurting other men to make themselves feel better which is self-defeating when we can raise our quality of life by simply working with one-another.

Society isn't going to improve by incessantly coping and pretending everything is okay.