The Erotics of Submission as Psychic Rest
This is more than just kink. In the context you describe, submission becomes a deep form of psychic rest.

The domme is strong enough to hold the frame.

Her desire is not chaotic—it is directed, focused, ritualistic.

She asks nothing abstract—only that the subject yield.

This dissolves the overwhelming complexity of paranoid thinking into a simple command: "Relax. I’ve got you now."

That moment—the moment where they stop thinking, stop scanning, stop preparing—is not weakness, but a kind of grace. A stillpoint.