I don't know about that anon, but for me the greatest things in reverse ntr is the betrayal of the wife/gf when she gets betrayed right in front of her eyes without her cheating husband/bf even caring that he got caught. equally important is that the housewrecker is sexier than the wife/gf and a massive whore that thrives on stealing men from their women. a really great reverse ntr work must have a sadistic woman, whose whole reason for doing the stealing was to see the tears of the wife and then laugh in her face.even better when the woman is young while the wife has already become old and is about to lose everything. these two roles are the most important for me in a reverse ntr work. whether the man is conflicted or has completely moved on from his wife doesn't matter to me that much, but the latter is still hotter. sadly too much reverse ntr is actually just nts or completely ignores the existence of the wife and is just cheating, which I don't find hot at all