One older than 25 who looks like this and isn't normie . Yes I am a thin female

Serious answers no misogyny replies please. My ex boyfriend who I loved literally was first oh I will pay for you for this and that even when I offered to pay (promises and actions). And then when we were fighting and broke up he made fun of me for being poor and was like oh I can't date you you don't make enough money for my country and I was like ok how much would I need to make and he was like this amount and I responded I literally make that and he hang up on me. What an asshole are all men like this?
He might just be using that as an excuse but it still really hurt my feelings. Regardless my standards for a guy is for me to be physically attracted to him (blue eyes, no facial hair, not fat, soft qt features) and being mentally attracted to him ( be 25-32 , be northern/middle euro since culture and language are things I geek about, have hobbies and values in common, be able to have an intelligent conversation), btw yes I am also thin and European . So before you point it out I don't mind fellow pooroids since if he loves me we can make financial goals together, it is just that poor men who also are into my hobbies and can talk intelligent are rare in my experience.

Ugh how that guy treated me still fucked me up I feel like a shadow of the woman I used to be, I had so much spark and it has been a month and a half and it is still gone when will it come back?