They refuse to reflect. She might have had a chance at the man she wanted when she was 22. She probably has some person or image in mind. But she can't get that man at 40. She knows this but can't face it. So she does this bullshit whining on the internet. And because most men are fools, you’ll get loads of simps responding to her, not understanding the above. She made her bed; she’d rather cry online than lie in it. Never subsidize female idiots with attention.