Every year more people quit apps for good and try their luck in the real world. Tinder, Bumble et al, are slowly losing stock..and users. Bumble recently removed its "women message first" rule which made it stand out amonst the other apps. Now with Tea, men are getting sladered behind the scenes with no way of knowing.
Just take a look at the reddit bumble sub, and you will find it almost all older women bitching about how the men on the apps arent good enough for them.
If you are under 30, go out in real life NOW, don't wait. Dont look for your wife here. she wont be found