proposing to grimmi but she has a mental breakdown because she thinks the engagement ring is a government tracking device and a colonial ploy to destroy her heritage and culture and she demands to get married like this instead

imagine being born on the same tribe as grimmi 200 years ago and getting to do this ritual with her

Did you know that the end of the Okipa involved Bull Dancers of the Mandan tribe (example pictured) having ritual sex with married women and then smoking a "pipe of reconciliation" with their husbands?