Honestly it just never happened for me and I was always introverted anyway. I feel like now that I'm nearing 30, the benefits aren't really there for me. I don't want to date a 19 year old to prove a point, and I don't think it would be fair to an attractive woman my age to have to deal with a virgin. I work, play old video games, read, listen to music, sleep a lot, smoke a joint after a dinner...just take it as easy as I can.

I'm not very ambitious or motivated by sex at all and I'm not sure why. I mostly just strive to be comfy.