where are all the 30+ y/o chasers with sexy dadbods and we'll groomed beards ? some of us tranners want to hold hands with you and tell u ur doing a good job. (plus some making out like teenagers)

bonus points if they like spicy home cooked food. i feel like they are either in straight relationships with cis women or hide at home/gym :(

basically im asking where does a strsight tranner go on the hunt for a quality chaser bf that will treat her right ? (right wing/conservative/maga guys not my type)