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>Vanilla sex lacks any kind of spice.
While that is true. If you're trying to self insert as someone being with your waifu, it's the ultimate form of sex. If you don't care about the character or your fetish is rape/pain/whatever, then you don't want vanilla.

I don't like seeing girls in pain. Even fictional ones. Unless they really deserve it like Yozora or something.