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12/18/2024, 9:35:42 AM
>>10941913
I don't know if I'm built for this hobby
>I've been to a few cons by this point
>I've always gone by myself, I have no irl friends btw, people act shocked if I say I came by myself and that I had nobody to go with
>I get along fine with people irl, have been invited to room parties and stuff
>But the people I've met all end up ghosting or being the most dry basic texters ever, that's if they actually even open my DMs at all, seriously how am I supposed to actually develop friendships with people if I'm the only one putting effort in?
>that goes for my entire social history btw, no matter who or what or when or where, people my age or younger are always one sided as shit with me. I've only ever been able to get along well with people way older than me
I said this stuff on /adv/ and I got told that I'm mature minded and yet I went to a place full of people playing dress up and pretend and am supposed to be surpised that they act immature as shit. It's so disappointing to feel like this since I always wanted to get into this hobby and I've only started trying to do so post-covid because before that I was living with very conservative parents who hate all hobbies, and in general it's very soul crushing to not have friends or a relationship. I have no idea where young people hangout and I literally never see people my age out in public. Night clubs aren't my thing and bars in my area at least are full of older people. I'm not religious so I'm not interested in going to church or anything like that either, but it just sucks so much that I don't have any kind of community at all that I am part of
>>10942167
>>10943407
trying to rizz up cosplayers just seems like more trouble than it's worth since they all end up ghosting and you're also competing for her attention with literally hundreds of other guys (but that applies to dating in 2024 in general)
I don't know if I'm built for this hobby
>I've been to a few cons by this point
>I've always gone by myself, I have no irl friends btw, people act shocked if I say I came by myself and that I had nobody to go with
>I get along fine with people irl, have been invited to room parties and stuff
>But the people I've met all end up ghosting or being the most dry basic texters ever, that's if they actually even open my DMs at all, seriously how am I supposed to actually develop friendships with people if I'm the only one putting effort in?
>that goes for my entire social history btw, no matter who or what or when or where, people my age or younger are always one sided as shit with me. I've only ever been able to get along well with people way older than me
I said this stuff on /adv/ and I got told that I'm mature minded and yet I went to a place full of people playing dress up and pretend and am supposed to be surpised that they act immature as shit. It's so disappointing to feel like this since I always wanted to get into this hobby and I've only started trying to do so post-covid because before that I was living with very conservative parents who hate all hobbies, and in general it's very soul crushing to not have friends or a relationship. I have no idea where young people hangout and I literally never see people my age out in public. Night clubs aren't my thing and bars in my area at least are full of older people. I'm not religious so I'm not interested in going to church or anything like that either, but it just sucks so much that I don't have any kind of community at all that I am part of
>>10942167
>>10943407
trying to rizz up cosplayers just seems like more trouble than it's worth since they all end up ghosting and you're also competing for her attention with literally hundreds of other guys (but that applies to dating in 2024 in general)
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