i know a girl who is obssesive over me irl and let me tell you, some things are better left in the realm of fiction. in reality, the amount of attention they demand is exhausting and in the back of your mind you're stressing about how unstable they actually are. you get weirded out and frustrated by having to deal with someone you know for a fact is mentally ill. if you ever find yourself in the situation, do NOT go for the vivian!