>>11313241
Do you ever play with toys? What I did was bring up the cage as a sunday activity were I would wear it and my wife would decide by the end of the day whether I deserved to be released or not. It was fun, she got oral, which is her favorite activity and I got to play with my kinks. However she unlocks me at the first chance lol

Don't bring up any other kinks and don't play it as a long term thing. Just play it as a short term cock bondage.