first question and I'm already confused, why wouldn't I see the beauty in flowers or accesories? why would I be ashamed of seeing the beauty in them? doesn't mean I want to wear them, but yeah if I look at a rose I'll say that yeah it's pretty, or if I see a necklace I'll say that yeah it's pretty, who would be ashamed of that, whut, I'd be ashamed to wear a rose or a pretty necklace though, whether it's pretty or not is irrelevant to whether I would wear it or not, which I imagine is the point, but that's not what the question is asking