I'm still struggling to figure out exactly when you're supposed to ask a girl to meet in person. I'm talking to a bunch of girls, but I've got three main ones:
>1. My favorite. I asked her out after like two days of talking, but she balked at that and said she wanted to keep talking longer, although she did give me her real phone number. We're vibing really well, but she's had personal problems that have slowed things down a bit and made taking that next step kind of awkward.
>2. I asked her out instantly because she made some comment about me taking her somewhere. She declined because she was "busy," but she effectively told me to take her out several days later.
>3. It's been like two days, but she's calling me cute, sending me kissy faces and heart emojis, and talked about how she's willing to drive to see me.
I'm going on a date with the second girl on Friday, but I don't know what to do with the others. The third girl seams really interested in me, but the first girl turned me down at this exact time despite us vibing even better.
Meanwhile, I'm completely lost with the first girl. She's just finished dealing with all her shit, but we only talked intermittently for a decent chunk of time, although she was leaning on me for support and even woke me up at 2AM because she was upset. At what point is it appropriate to bring the topic up again?