ririmu told us that if someone tell her to not worry too much about a problem then she's done with asking that person for advice again, not that their a bad person but they have a different mindset, so not worrying doesnt actually solve the problem and it's not a answer for her at all, so, it's the people that just solve their own problems by not worrying about them, so if they dont think about their problems they dont exist

when she tells someone about her problems and that other person just goet back to talk about themselves like "oh well that just happened to me and..." "its just like when i..." "like me, also..." that's not good when you tell someone you have a problem you dont want them to just say "i get it too" and only that,