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6/20/2025, 10:19:17 PM
>>81556286
for the lazy like me:
Key Takeaways:
>Dating apps (especially Tinder) feel like a game: The poster (F22) admits to using Tinder like "Candy Crush" - lots of swiping, minimal engagement.
>Overwhelmed by messages: She gets tons of generic messages like "hey," which makes it hard to stay interested or take most conversations seriously.
>Apps foster unrealistic expectations: Swiping culture makes people believe they can always find someone better, which leads to constant dissatisfaction.
>Best dates came from effort: Even though she rarely messages first, her best dating experiences were with guys she approached.
>Photos and profiles are misleading: Attractive pics and lifestyles don't always match the person's real character.
>Casual dating is the norm: Most dates feel like chill hangouts - not serious or romantic. She's never had a meal paid for.
>Validation over connection: People use apps to feel desirable ("many matches = still got it") rather than genuinely connect.
>She's tired and disillusioned: 18 first dates, no relationships, and still gets heartbroken. She's taken breaks but still hopes for something better.
for the lazy like me:
Key Takeaways:
>Dating apps (especially Tinder) feel like a game: The poster (F22) admits to using Tinder like "Candy Crush" - lots of swiping, minimal engagement.
>Overwhelmed by messages: She gets tons of generic messages like "hey," which makes it hard to stay interested or take most conversations seriously.
>Apps foster unrealistic expectations: Swiping culture makes people believe they can always find someone better, which leads to constant dissatisfaction.
>Best dates came from effort: Even though she rarely messages first, her best dating experiences were with guys she approached.
>Photos and profiles are misleading: Attractive pics and lifestyles don't always match the person's real character.
>Casual dating is the norm: Most dates feel like chill hangouts - not serious or romantic. She's never had a meal paid for.
>Validation over connection: People use apps to feel desirable ("many matches = still got it") rather than genuinely connect.
>She's tired and disillusioned: 18 first dates, no relationships, and still gets heartbroken. She's taken breaks but still hopes for something better.
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