I want to start dating again, maybe on hinge. Last time i dated I was presenting as a cis dude. It's been like two and a half years of transitioning, and I've made GREAT progress, but I don't really look fem. I'm approaching androgyny, I guess... I'm scared of just being seen as a weird guy pretending to be mtf or something. I feel like I don't really deserve to date unless I'm feminine.

What do I do? Do I need to try harder? Learn makeup skills first? Just wait longer and continue lasering and the stuff I'm doing?

Dating and being vulnerable is scary.