As a manlet the only way to mog is being lean.
Sadly nobody gives a fuck how much you can lift and being too much muscle bound will make you look more stocky that you're already are.

Losing another 10kg did more for me than getting my OHP from 52kg(115lbs) to 61kg(135lbs)
Now Women look at my forearms because you can see the muscle separations and veins.