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7/6/2025, 7:12:53 PM
>>530183625
You are using an twisted idea of realism as a shield. You have assumed that failure is a reality and success is a dream. You have replaced ‘I have failed so far’ with ‘I will always fail’ and you cling to this view because it gives you a sense of control over your life.
You are right that doing everything ‘right’ does not guarantee success, and that fucking sucks. Life is not fair, and sometimes it seems like some things are not meant to be. But deciding that you will never find love is also a choice. Saying ‘it is not meant to be’ is still your decision to give up, not a universal law. Yes, it's true that some people try for a long time and don't get what they want. It's also true that others keep living their lives and end up finding a connection later, in ways they didn't expect. No one can promise that it will work, but you decide whether to close the door or leave it open.
>>530184386
Or I'm terrible at this. My policy is to never give up on anyone, no matter how toxic they are. But that's the worst advice I can give you because it's killing me inside too. You end up fixing other people's problems, but no one ever comes to fix yours, so you need a pillar even bigger than any other to support you.
You are using an twisted idea of realism as a shield. You have assumed that failure is a reality and success is a dream. You have replaced ‘I have failed so far’ with ‘I will always fail’ and you cling to this view because it gives you a sense of control over your life.
You are right that doing everything ‘right’ does not guarantee success, and that fucking sucks. Life is not fair, and sometimes it seems like some things are not meant to be. But deciding that you will never find love is also a choice. Saying ‘it is not meant to be’ is still your decision to give up, not a universal law. Yes, it's true that some people try for a long time and don't get what they want. It's also true that others keep living their lives and end up finding a connection later, in ways they didn't expect. No one can promise that it will work, but you decide whether to close the door or leave it open.
>>530184386
Or I'm terrible at this. My policy is to never give up on anyone, no matter how toxic they are. But that's the worst advice I can give you because it's killing me inside too. You end up fixing other people's problems, but no one ever comes to fix yours, so you need a pillar even bigger than any other to support you.
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