>>40408224
Ikwym. Its so reductive. And it sets such a limited and often misleading frame of reference for so many other aspects. It often feels to me like adding more labels somehow makes the whole subject more mundane. It makes me wish I had existed in the times when people said less and dreamed more. When it becomes an intellectual matter, it seems to degrade the passion of simply appreciating male intimacy. Not just sexually, but as a concept for reflection on the other aspects that lead to and from it.