grindr fucking sucks here holy shit
i ended up finding two or three nice people but i just ghosted them (because i'm mentally ill toooo teehee)
desu in actuality i ghosted them because they were too hypersocial for me, we got along but i'm not sure i could keep up with those people's pace
i deleted for now because i'm on /fit/ bulk, i wont download it again until i'm confident enough