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And most of the time the compatibility thing would ensure a good relationship unless you used a super specific catalyst though in Apocrypha the notion is that there is ALWAYS a bit of compatibility at play but not necessarily the way you'd imagine.
For example: Caules and Avicebron loved golems and couldn't understand people. Unfortunately this meant that Avicebron prioritized golems over all else eventually sacrificing his own master for his ultimate creation.
Meanwhile Mordred got good compatibility with Kairi. But in their case it was someone that never had a father figure and a man that lost his daughter. Their relationship being of a family rather than a romantic one.