Brood parasitism is the most vicious, most cruel type of parasitism there is, and nothing can tops it.
Other parasitism, no matter what, allow you to at least reproduce and/or help the colony, and basically fulfill your evolutionary objective.
Fucking brood parasitism even takes that chance from you, by killing your offspring and forcing you to be a cuck, sometimes by threat of destroying your nest.
your entire resources would go to feed a parasite, while depriving you from continuing your lineage (if you get unlucky and get eaten next year; or worse, get cucked again)
Btw, Personally I believe that adopting children is a form of inter species brood parasitism.