>>212363995
it is at bars though. last week i met a girl at a bar. in fact i met a girl at a cafe too.

you want to meet a girl who likes you without any risk of failure. but that "failure" is better defined as "not attractive to someone else" and it is fundamentally part of meeting people. if a girl sitting alone stares at you, maintains eye contact, or otherwise shows through body language that she is interested? no reason not to introduce yourself. if she gives one word responses and isn't showing engagement? just move on.

it's that simple, and it's a numbers game. your fear of the numbers game has prevented you from trying, but trying is all you need to do to eventually find someone where the attraction is mutual