oh, i almost forgot. find something you're wrong about and forgive yourself. you're the kind of person that has to know that you're right to feel good, i've been there myself. but you're wrong about a lot of things, and it's okay, i still love you and i think you're great. but you have a vanity about you that's unattractive and harmful. that's different than self-respect, self-admiration, and it's different than forgiving yourself as well. vanity is pretending that your vices are actually virtues. and that is one thing you do a lot. but it's okay. see that too, see the whole picture, and love it despite it's flaws, because you are loveable, you are good enough. and stop being so nervous. dreams and wishes do come true and people do live happily ever after. i love you.
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