how billions of men somehow found it in them to expend the effort, time, money, and resources to tolerate, attract, date, marry, and procreate with women?
statistically, it should be the easiest thing in the world to not bone, but so few guys are so lazy or disinterested for the default option that it's essentially a moral failure if you're a virgin by 30.
it's wild. the overwhelming majority of people seriously seem to be falling in and out of relationships constantly, meanwhile i hardly have the endurance for a ten-minute conversation with most women before i nearly die of boredom or annoyance.
i straight up feel no desire to woo or seduce a woman atp. the idea of fucking doesn't do shit for me. but what i don't get is why so many people have treated it like it's one of the most important things in the world