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>is this a cultural thing or some shit?
unironically yes
basically if you're a Latina and your father was actually present in your life you're pretty much his little princess and you get spoiled well into adulthood while your mom hopelessly tries to discipline you
This just leads to them acting like entitled brats or they get so overwhelmed with doing the bare minimum they get exhausted easily
It's pretty much why they complain about being sick all the time too