So I was on Facebook dating andthis cutie in pic related had her snapchat on there and I added her. She has been responsive and hasn't ghosted (a rarity). The problem is she has two new borns so she was pumped and dumped by Chad and had two twins with him or was fucked by two chads and had two kids with different chads who ditched her. In this dating market and especially the state I live, women who arent morbidly obese and or dykes and actually respond when you match with them is quite rare. Should I take chads sloppy seconds and help raise her kids just so I can be with the girl?