Idk if I'm gay or not. There's this guy, and we both are kind of interested in each other as more than friends but actual sex feels kind of intimidating and neither of us feels comfortable volunteering to bottom.

I've thought about it some and I don't mean to be gross but I've always imagined bottoming felt kind of like pooping and I always thought pooping felt nice. So I was thinking of offering, but we're still at that sort of uncertain point of not knowing if we're both for sure gay.

I don't want to do this and end up feeling weird about it. What do?