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7/8/2025, 4:43:28 AM
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Mainly I have my other half that I've talked about once before who humors me with all kinds of yumejoshi stuff, and in return I talk to him about his yumedan stuff. Most of my friends are aware of my yume tendencies but I can't say that I talk about it much outside of a few things I squeezed into a tabletop for another series and even that was more helping out with the plot and less about the wish fulfilment lol. I have one or two other people I talk to about yume stuff too, but I'm so shy about it that I tend to keep it to myself out of pure habit because keeping the autism in check has been ingrained into my DNA at this point, even when I should be letting it all out.
Personally, I find that being a yume and trying to find community with other yumes is tricky because of the emotions involved. So many other yumes I see into the same husbandos as me don't allow doubles, and even though I get why, it makes it hard to find like-minded people. I honestly feel like I'm quite mellow about it and these days I'm pretty in touch with reality so I can just say "this isn't real" and take a step back if I get worked up while a lot of other yumes simply yoom too hard and it wigs me out. Nobody here seems like that, for the record. I'm talking about the people who are clinically delusional about the husbando thing and send death threats to people they decide they don't like enjoying their husbando. Relatively rare cases, but scary enough to make me not want to get too close.
As for fandoms, I live under a rock by choice. Too many teenagers being shitty about meaningless shit like the ages of fictional characters along with fandom and politics being extremely hard to separate for some stupid reason makes it not worth participating anymore. Sometimes I contribute with content but otherwise I'm almost entirely hands-off. Posting on 4chan and drawing personal stuff is kinda the only thing I do now.
Mainly I have my other half that I've talked about once before who humors me with all kinds of yumejoshi stuff, and in return I talk to him about his yumedan stuff. Most of my friends are aware of my yume tendencies but I can't say that I talk about it much outside of a few things I squeezed into a tabletop for another series and even that was more helping out with the plot and less about the wish fulfilment lol. I have one or two other people I talk to about yume stuff too, but I'm so shy about it that I tend to keep it to myself out of pure habit because keeping the autism in check has been ingrained into my DNA at this point, even when I should be letting it all out.
Personally, I find that being a yume and trying to find community with other yumes is tricky because of the emotions involved. So many other yumes I see into the same husbandos as me don't allow doubles, and even though I get why, it makes it hard to find like-minded people. I honestly feel like I'm quite mellow about it and these days I'm pretty in touch with reality so I can just say "this isn't real" and take a step back if I get worked up while a lot of other yumes simply yoom too hard and it wigs me out. Nobody here seems like that, for the record. I'm talking about the people who are clinically delusional about the husbando thing and send death threats to people they decide they don't like enjoying their husbando. Relatively rare cases, but scary enough to make me not want to get too close.
As for fandoms, I live under a rock by choice. Too many teenagers being shitty about meaningless shit like the ages of fictional characters along with fandom and politics being extremely hard to separate for some stupid reason makes it not worth participating anymore. Sometimes I contribute with content but otherwise I'm almost entirely hands-off. Posting on 4chan and drawing personal stuff is kinda the only thing I do now.
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