This is how you know the average so-called "neopagan" here is nonwhite. Northwestern European WEIRDs -- ESPECIALLY in premodern times -- prioritize individualism and independence. Adulthood also started earlier back then. Obviously they had childhoods and were raised by their parents to begin with (maybe with servants) but they quickly became men. Do you think fucking migratory Germanic warriors gave a shit about MOMMY or DADDY? No and Northwestern Europeans are remarkable for their lack of this feminine longhoused BS that includes things like ancestor veneration.